Family counseling (or family therapy) is a form of psychotherapy that helps family members improve communication, resolve conflicts, and build stronger, healthier relationships. It addresses the needs of the family as a whole, recognizing that challenges with one person often affect everyone.
Whether you're facing a specific crisis or simply want to strengthen your family’s connection, therapy provides a safe space to talk, understand each other, and grow together.
Common Reasons Families Seek Counseling:
Frequent conflict between family members
Communication breakdown
Parenting struggles or disagreements
Blended family transitions
Divorce or separation adjustment
Behavioral issues in children or teens
Grief and loss
Mental health concerns within the family
Substance use, trauma, or major life changes
Goals of Family Counseling:
Strengthen family bonds
Improve communication and problem-solving
Increase empathy and understanding
Create a more supportive and stable home environment
What to Expect in Family Therapy:
Sessions typically last 50–60 minutes.
Some sessions may include the whole family; others may involve specific members depending on the situation.
The therapist helps each person express themselves, listen to one another, and develop healthier patterns of interaction.
Techniques may be drawn from Family Systems Therapy, Structural Family Therapy, or other evidence-based models.
1. What is family counseling?
Family counseling helps family members address conflicts and improve their relationships. It offers a structured, supportive environment to work through issues that affect the family as a unit.
2. Who should attend family therapy sessions?
That depends on the concern. Sometimes the whole family comes together; in other cases, it may be just parents, siblings, or a few members. The therapist will help decide who needs to be involved based on the situation.
3. Do we need to have a major problem to go to family therapy?
Not at all. Therapy can be a proactive tool to improve communication, prevent future issues, or help a family adjust to new circumstances like a move, a new baby, or a loss.
4. Can family therapy help with a child or teen’s behavior?
Yes. Often, a child’s behavior is influenced by family dynamics. Family therapy can address underlying issues and help improve interactions at home.
5. How long does family therapy last?
The length of therapy varies. Some families come for a few sessions to address a specific issue, while others continue longer for ongoing support or deeper challenges.
6. Will the therapist blame one person?
No. Family therapy is not about placing blame. It’s about understanding patterns and helping everyone work together toward better solutions.
7. What if one family member doesn’t want to participate?
That’s common. The therapist can help the family explore this concern and still move forward in a way that’s respectful of everyone’s comfort level.
8. Is what we share in family therapy confidential?
Yes, with a few legal exceptions (such as threats of harm). The therapist will explain how confidentiality works when multiple family members are involved.
9. What kind of therapist provides family counseling?
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs) and other licensed clinicians trained in family systems work typically provide family therapy.